|What Planet Is Your Relationship
If men are from Mars and women are from
Venus, what planet is their relationship on?
John Gray's bestselling book used a planetary
analogy to understand relationships. It proved very popular as a way of
understanding and interpreting the behaviour patterns that men and women
Astrology also uses planets to understand
and predict character traits and behaviour patterns. It is an extremely effective
tool for analysing relationships. Venus and Mars are not the only planets
looked at, although they are important. In total there are ten planets to
consider and 12 different signs that each planet could be in. This gives
a very high number of possible combinations, which can lead to an insightful
and detailed analsis.
One of the reasons astrology is such
a useful tool is its neutrality. By describing a relationship astrologically,
a distance can be achieved. Difficulties then become a shared problem which
could be resolved through co-operation. Identifying the problem as 'We have
a Mars opposition' is a much more neutral way of saying 'We argue all the
time' or even ' Why do you always argue with me?' What's more, astrology
can even help to identify the timing of both good and difficult times. Knowing
that things will get better can dissolve a lot of tension.
In any relationship there will be
combinations of harmonious and challenging aspects, but there will often
be a way of relating to each other that seems to work most of the time. It
becomes a habitual way of interacting, the line of least resistance. Sometimes
one particular planet provides a dominant theme for the relationship. In
effect, it is the planet on which the relationship is based.
It could be the moon, signifying that
emotional rapport and domestic compatability are the foundation on which
it is based. Or it could be Mercury,indicating that both partners are on
the same wavelength, can communicate well with each other and enjoy chatting
or even writing to each other. Or perhaps it is the Sun, suggesting compatability
at a deep level and that fundamental values and ways of approaching life
are in harmony.
Only three examples have been given here,
but there are lots more. It can get very complex, but the fundamental principles
are simple and can be grasped by anybody sufficiently motivated to understand
If you want to understand the dynamic
of a relationship, you should first try to understand each person as an
individual. Astrology is a great way of doing this. It can help identify
what matters most to you. If you are fundamentally an emotional person, emotional
rapport will be the most important aspect of any relationship you have. A
relationship that is great in lots of other ways, but does not meet this
need, will ultimately be unfulfilling. Equally, you may tolerate all kinds
of other difficulties if you are in a relationship where you feel a deep
emotional connection. Discovering which planet you want the relationship
to be on, is crucial. A great relationship on Venus may be fine for some
people,but you might personally be happier with one based on the moon.
Astrology is a fascinating subject. After
all, what could be more interesting than studying yourself, the person you
love and the relationship that you have? It's worth investing some time to
understand it yourself, rather than relying on other people's predictions
and interpretations. It can be easy to place too much faith in an expert
interpretation. There are some very experienced astrologers out there, but
you are the most qualified person to understand yourself and your relationship.
Astrology gives you the tools to do so in a neutral way, and it's also great
fun. So, if you do feel inspired to look at it in more depth, be sure to
enjoy yourself whatever planet you are on.
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